Jealousy is to a relationship as cancer is to the human body and deadly, so if you are suffering from feelings of jealousy somehow try to lay to rest and sooner the better. Jealousy is an indication that something has gone wrong in a relationship, the playing field has changed and a couple feels at a disadvantage, so we are going to see some of the problems that can cause feelings of jealousy and they try to locate again to point at which these feelings started to arise. Number one, jealousy are normally associated with feelings of fear of losing something, someone valuable but equally also marks a lack of confidence, we will try this later, but it is very important to understand that in less than a perfect relationship, jealousy are often the straw that breaks the camel.We enter into relationships through the election, love and trust and very few, if anyone wants to live under the weight of property of another person, or accountable to someone else. Jealousy is normally accompanied by a shift in the balance of a relationship, can be attributed to having and raising children, a flourishing career of one, both partners, a continuation of the socialization with friends previous relationship, or any other combination of events. Now we are going to get a very clear and very straight, when each one of which it has entered into the relationship, either through marriage or not, was an emotion willing, mutual and would bring that it was shared between the two. It was not, I repeat, not a title of property from one to the other. It was a commitment that each decides by consensus and that he has been and is a cornerstone, the foundation of their union. Does Ok, let’s back track here, I remember the first time you met? It is clear that there is a kind of mutual attraction and chemistry that went on, but I also remember that there were two people, two individuals with the hopes, aspirations, jobs or careers and plans for the future, do you remember? do tea both retain the hopes, the aspirations of them, or racing, or that one of? you submit within the relationship and establish that side? This could have been a mistake, if we treat a relationship like the one possibility to rely on the other there is a very good chance that everything can fall under the combined weight.